Relationship Help
Are you in a relationship that has lost its juice? Do you feel as if you have lost part of yourself? Are you in a relationship in which you feel dominated by your partner; or in which you dominate your partner and you don’t like it? Or perhaps you have had a series of failed relationships. You may look ahead fearful of being lonely and alone in your older years.
Relationship help is on the way! Pat Webster and Marty Groder’s book, Winning at Love, addresses problems found in relationships. With simple-easy-to-understand language that is often entertaining and humorous, they offer step-by-step relationship help.
Although this book offers relationship help that can be useful to any couple, special attention is paid to relationships in which one or both partners are alphas. What is an alpha?
Alpha designates “the first” and we first started designating this to the leaders of animal packs, such as wolves. Approximately 40% of all males and females are alphas. The alpha is usually the strongest and the bravest, the leader of the pack. They possess such attributes as dominance, confidence, and a take-charge attitude. The alpha has a high level of self-directedness, as they doggedly go about their goals. Alphas are usually aggressive, competitive high achievers, with a strong sense of mission and can be bold, creative innovative thinkers. Often highly successful in the world, the alpha’s traits of persistence, tenacity, determination and steadfastness help them to achieve their goals.
However, when it comes to taking steps in a relationship that would make the relationship be more loving and healthy, the very traits that make alphas successful in the world can prevent a healthy relationship. Even if eighty percent of what an alpha does is really good for the relationship, the twenty percent that he or she does out of their alpha attitude and behavior is enough to blow up the relationship.
This book addresses relationship problems with particular attention to those encountered when one or both partners are alpha, with step-by-step guidelines for addressing these problems. While many relationship books discuss “communication problems” as sources of distress in relationships, this book brilliantly breaks relationship problems down to four basic types, making it easier for you to diagnose and address your relationship problem. Relationship help comes in the form of entertaining, interesting illustrations and step-by-step guidelines. The book’s subtitle addresses itself to alpha males. However, it is also useful for alpha females and anyone looking for relationship help.
Need some relationship help? Get your copy of Winning at Love today!
