Steps in a Relationship
Have you ever wished that someone would spell out the steps in a relationship that would make it a successful, juicy, comfortable, loving and sustaining relationship? Wait no more; Winning at Love is here.
This book provides you with step-by-step guidelines for doing this; it spells out the steps in a relationship that make it alive and loving. Too often, obstacles to a good relationship are noted as “lack of communication”. What does that mean? In their book Winning at Love, co-authors Pat Webster and Martin Groder outline problems encountered in trying to establish a good relationship and steps to repair or improve it. Included in the discussion of the problems is a discussion of special problems encountered when one or both partners are alphas. What is an alpha?
Alpha designates “the first” and we first started designating this to the leaders of animal packs, such as wolves. Approximately 40% of all males and females are alphas. The alpha is usually the strongest and the bravest, the leader of the pack. They possess such attributes as dominance, confidence, and a take-charge attitude. The alpha has a high level of self-directedness, as they doggedly go about their goals. Alphas are usually aggressive, competitive high achievers, with a strong sense of mission and can be bold, creative innovative thinkers. Often highly successful in the world, the alpha’s traits of persistence, tenacity, determination and steadfastness help them to achieve their goals.
However, when it comes to making a relationship more loving and healthy, the very traits that make alphas successful in the world can hurt a relationship, or, can destroy a budding relationship. Even if eighty percent of what an alpha does is really good for the relationship, the twenty percent that he or she does out of their alpha attitude and behavior is enough to blow up the relationship.
This book addresses these problems, as well as other common relationship problems. In simple, easy-to-understand, entertaining and at times humorous language, authors Pat Webster and Marty Groder spell out the steps in a relationship that will make it a foolproof good one!
Of course, practice is necessary, but just like you practice other skills in your life, such as a sport, or marketing, or public speaking, you can certainly practice skills that are steps in a relationship that make it a satisfying love.
This book is a great book for any couple who wants a simple, easy-to-understand guidebook to mend or improve their relationship. It is a must for any couple in which at least one of the partners is an alpha. Don’t let the title fool you; while the title directs itself to men, any couple can profit from reading this book!
Interested in learning the different steps in a relationship? Get your copy of Winning at Love today!
