Alpha female body language is designed to support and achieve what alpha females are born to be: the leader of the pack, a supreme survivor and a winner. Alpha connotes the first and the best. We first began using this term to describe the obvious leader in an animal group, such as a wolf pack. Wolf packs often have an alpha male and an alpha female. Alpha female body language is at least in part genetically endowed, as is in all probability being an alpha.
How does body language support the alpha’s natural drive to be a leader and a winner? Let’s start with the simple stare-down. In the animal kingdom, the alpha is the one who stares down potential opponents, potential threats to power through mating and access to food. In the human, basic alpha female behavior begins with the stare-down, often used to gain control in the corporate board room or in the professional world.
It is designed to maintain top position through tolerating no argument or disagreement. This includes a legs-apart stance with folded arms that often conveys louder than words “my way or the highway.” Because one of the ways she maintains her authority is threatening to leave or dismiss anyone who disagrees with or troubles her, another stance may be half or fully turned away from another. In this case, the body language indicates that she female wants nothing to do with the disagreeing person, either permanently or temporarily, depending on the situation. Body language can also include standing too close, or pushing into another’s space in order to intimidate them into compliance.
They are also masters at seduction and charm when it helps them to get their way. Body language that accompanies seduction and charm include the head slightly tilted with perhaps a slight wink added for effect, or leaning toward the other person with a beguiling look in the eye.
Body language does its trick, paving the way to success in business and profession. However, in intimate relationships, alpha female body language can often be a put-off. she doesn’t have a clue that the same body language that accompanies her way to success in the outside world sabotages success in her love life. It is not until after several failed relationships that she begins to think that she may need to do something different.
Winning at Love is targeted toward the alpha male (they often do more harm) it also explains the dynamics of the alpha female and why the alpha female can have difficulty in relationship. It offers step-by-step learnable techniques for transforming alpha female attitudes, behaviors and body language into the language of love.
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