Alpha Male Body Language
Alpha male body language is designed to support and achieve what alpha males are born to be: the leader of the pack, the best provider and the best protector and above all, a supreme survivor and a winner. Alpha connotes the first and the best. We first began using this term to describe the obvious leader in an animal group, such as a wolf pack .Alpha male body language is at least in part genetically endowed, as is being an alpha in all probability.
How does alpha male body language support the alpha’s natural drive to be a leader and a winner? Let’s start with the simple stare-down. In the animal kingdom, the alpha is the one who stares down potential opponents, potential threats to power through mating and access to food. In the human, basic alpha male behavior begins with the stare-down, whether used to divert a potential street-fight or in the corporate board room.
Other body language is designed to maintain top position through tolerating no argument or disagreement. This includes a legs-apart stance with folded arms that often conveys louder than words “my way or the highway.” Because one of the ways that the alpha male maintains his authority is threatening to leave or dismiss anyone who disagrees with or troubles him, another alpha male stance may be half or fully turned away from another. In this case, the body language indicates that the alpha male wants nothing to do with the disagreeing person, either permanently or temporarily, depending on the situation. Alpha male body language can also include standing too close, or pushing into another’s space in order to intimidate them into compliance.
Alpha males are also masters at seduction and charm when it helps them to get their way. Body language that accompanies seduction and charm include the head slightly tilted with perhaps a slight wink added for effect, or leaning toward the other person with a beguiling look in the eye.
The alpha male uses body language often without thinking. It does its trick, paving his way to success in business and profession. However, in intimate relationships, he can often be a put-off. He doesn’t have a clue that the same body language that accompanies his way to success in the outside world sabotages success in his love life. It is not until after several failed relationships that the he begins to think that he may need to do something different.
Winning at Love explains the dynamics of the alpha male and why they can have difficulty in a relationship. It offers step-by-step learnable techniques for transforming attitudes, behaviors and body language into the language of love. The alpha male still has all the body language he needs for success in the outside world, and alternatives for a successful love life or a successful marriage.
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