Happy Marriage
Most of us yearn to be in a happy marriage. It should be easy, right? Then why is the divorce rate over fifty percent for first marriages and over sixty percent for second marriages?
The book, Winning at Love addresses problems that prevent a happy marriage. It brilliantly categorizes marital problems into four different types, and gives step-by-step directions for addressing these types, as well as other marriage problems. This book provides special insights into how couples in which one or both partners are alpha can have a happy marriage. What is an alpha?
Alpha designates “the first” and we first started designating this to the leaders of animal packs, such as wolves. Approximately 40% of all males and females are alphas. The alpha is usually the strongest and the bravest, the leader of the pack. They possess such attributes as dominance, confidence, and a take-charge attitude. The alpha has a high level of self-directedness, as they doggedly go about their goals. Alphas are usually aggressive, competitive high achievers, with a strong sense of mission and can be bold, creative innovative thinkers. Often highly successful in the world, the alpha’s traits of persistence, tenacity, determination and steadfastness help them to achieve their goals.
However, these very traits can prevent a happy marriage, or, can destroy a marriage. Even if eighty percent of what an alpha does is really good for the marriage,, the twenty percent that he or she does out of their alpha attitude and behavior is enough to blow up the marriage.
This bookaddresses these marriage problems, as well as other problems encountered when working at establishing a healthy marriage relationship. These include problems secondary to gender differences. Women are both neurologically hard-wired and culturally trained to have an easier time expressing their feelings, paying attention to the feelings of those around them and navigating the waters of relationship.
Don’t despair, guys! With information, learning new skills and practice, practice, practice, you have learned to improve your golf game, or to fly-fish or market successfully. This book is also a must for women wanting to better understand their man, men and women who are in a marriage in which one or both partners are alpha, and any couple wanting to make a happy marriage.
Want a happy marriage? Get your copy of Winning at Love today!
