Relationship Problems With Alpha Females
If you are an alpha female, you may know that the one of the biggest relationship problems with alpha females is….lack of a relationship. Until the last decade or two, we hardly used the term alpha female. Even in animal packs it was assumed that all alphas are male. Today we know that many animal species have female as well as male alphas. In days past, an alpha female was considered unladylike, aggressive and someone who didn’t know her place. Advances by women in the trade, business and professional world have made it possible for alpha women to safely take their place in the world.
You may be proud to be an alpha female. Alpha designates the first and the best. As an alpha female, you are a high achiever. You like to compete. You can be dominant, with a competent take-charge attitude. You are goal-directed, willing to work hard, with boldness, tenacity and perseverance, and often have a strong sense of mission about your life. However, the very traits that make you successful in the world of business or profession may cause relationship problems.
Relationship problems with alpha females may begin if they are partnered with an alpha male who is threatened by her strength and take-charge personality. She and her partner may fight frequently. On the other hand, she may find herself hiding her power when she is with her partner or mate in order to avoid friction and power struggles. The cost is that she feels that she leaves part of herself out of the relationship.
If you are an alpha female who is paired with a beta male, you may feel like he doesn’t stand up to you or meet you in your place of power. He may seem like a submissive wimp to you. You lose respect for him, or think that you can bully and boss him. You may feel bad about yourself for this, or he may get tired of this and leave. If both of you stick it out you may feel that your relationship has lost its zest.
These kinds of relationship problems with alpha females often leave the alpha female feeling like she is better off not being in a relationship, or it leaves her wondering, time and time again if there really is any possibility of relationship for her. She may bury herself in work and continue her achievement in the world, and yet feel lonely. As the years go by, she may sees the receding possibility of a family of her own., Later she may look at spending her old age lonely and alone.
These problems can be resolved. Winning at Love spells out in easy-to-understand, entertaining and often humorous language the nature of these problems. The cover targets the alpha male, because, at least in the professional world, alpha males are capable of more damage. However, there is a section in the introduction addressed specifically to the alpha female. In other parts of the book when the alpha female’s situation differs from that of the alpha male’s it is addressed.
If you are an alpha female who is in a relationship with an alpha male this book is also for you. Women, both alpha and beta, tend to be more relationship-oriented than alpha males. Also, if you are a male who has experienced relationship problems with alpha females this book is a must.
Not only does this book spell out the problem. It also offers step-by-step directions for addressing it. Relationship problems will be a thing of the past!
Interested in learning more about solving relationship problems with alpha females? Get your copy of Winning at Love today!
