What makes a relationship successful? First, it is important to remember that each of you wanted to be here, in the relationship. No one is forcing you; no one is holding a gun to your head. Statistics show that happily married couples are healthier and enjoy greater longevity. You don’t want to live alone and lonely. You don’t want to die alone and lonely. So, you want do know as much as possible about what makes a relationship successful.
A must for a successful relationship is a strong commitment to the absence of malice. This means you won’t deliberately hurt or threaten to hurt physically or emotionally, someone that you love. You will not attempt to use either force or charm to coerce from them things that they don’t want to give or things that they don’t have to give. You will not try to get your way through threatening to leave. People who do this say things like, “If you know what’s good for you, you will….”, or “One of these days you will be sorry that you……” Refraining from malice is easy for about sixty percent of the population. However, forty percent of the population, male and female, is alphas. All alphas have the capacity to engage in malice. They can be very determined to achieve their goals, they often discourage disagreement and in fact, many of their alpha traits make them successful in the world of business and profession. However, they sometimes have little idea about what makes a successful relationship.
You need to have an agreement to attend to disconnects in your relationship as soon as possible and to be able to diagnose what kinds of problem that you are encountering in your relationship.
Winning at Love details problems encountered in relationships in easy-to-understand, entertaining and humorous language. Then the authors outline what makes a relationship successful. This includes steps for eliminating malice from your relationship, if there is malice. It includes step-by-step guidelines for dealing with those problems that, if not attended to, can either cause major crises (the authors call these relationship train-wrecks) or can deaden relationships.
The authors reduce relationship problems to four simple categories, with steps for addressing each of these problems. This bookis an easy-to-understand recipe book for what relationship successl.
This book is useful for all couples wanting to learn more about what makes a relationship successful. It also covers specifically those problems particular to alpha females and males. Regardless of whether you are an alpha or not, you can profit from reading this book.
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